THIS GIRL IS ON FIRE!
Yeah, those are lyrics from a great Alicia Keys song. It’s also how you should feel about your life.
You are smart, you are truly truly talented and you KNOW there is more out there for you. You want to make the world a better place. And you know what? The world needs your unique gifts. That restlessness burning inside saying there is more to life? It’s telling the truth.
You can have the life of your dreams. Your very best life. You can find your divine purpose.
It’s okay that you don’t know exactly what that looks like yet. It’s okay to feel a little lost and a little scared. Big, amazing changes usually start with a little fear. And there’s no judgment here. No matter your religion or beliefs, no matter your fears or screw ups, this is a safe space to put your past behind you and get back on YOUR divine path. That’s exactly why I’m here – I’ve got the keys to help unlock all those hidden places where your dreams, hopes, and talents have been stuffed down and tucked away. Those places you’ve been told to hide because it’s not okay to dream BIG or to ask for MORE.
And yes, stepping out is SCARY. You’ve been told exactly the kind of life you are supposed to live: go to school, work for corporate America, etc… and all the rest of it is just day dreams. Right? Wrong!!
Life has a delicious meal just waiting for you and it’s about time for you to take a big slice of positivity pie. I’m here to dish it up and keep your spirit fed.
Believe me, I know what it is like to feel spiritually starved and unfulfilled…
Before I was Janae Martin the Life Purpose Coach, I was Janae Martin the girl who did anything and everything to fill a Giant Void.
My origin story: In 1984 I was born in NYC to young parents. They did the best they could considering the situation, but it was rough at times. I was passed around a lot and never had a real family structure. I never felt really loved. I love being raised in the Bronx, NY and have some great memories however my story definitely presented it’s challenges.
You know that giant void I mentioned? It started there. I reached for anything I could to fill it: food, guys, money, corporate jobs, alcohol. It was all fair game and I used way too much of all of it to cope. Very compulsive behavior…
The next thing I knew, my life was getting out of control. I ate to fill a void. I was involved in many toxic situations / relationships. I had unhealthy money attitudes and thought money defined me. I drank to escape. I drank to feel less shy and insecure. I won’t bore you with a whole “drunk-a-logue” because you don’t need that whole series of events, but let me tell you: it got dark. I lost friends. I lost self-respect. I had become a person who wasn’t living my truth. And it was only when I got out of that and learned to stop filling my void with lies, that I was able to truly LOVE MYSELF and LOVE MY LIFE.
This is the thing I am here to help you discover. It is so easy to fill our lives with these “made-up” personas we create in order to cope with our voids. I am here to help you get rid of the things you use as crutches.
How did I do it? I shed the things that were holding me back using the tools that I will share with you. I stopped living for other people around me and started living authentically. I stepped away from my 9 to 5 job and mundane routine and trained to become the life coach that I am today. I am living an authentic life and suddenly I don’t need those other things I used to fill my void in the past. I’ve made room for the real me to exist.
That’s exactly what I want for YOU. To create the life that is YOUR best life, for your unique self. And watch it truly blossom with the same combination of practical and spiritual techniques that helped my life.
And I’m not saying I am perfect. My journey is still happening. Every single day is a new day sober, healthy, spiritual, and a chance to evolve more and more. I’m currently in the process of losing some of the weight from using food to fill the void, but you know what? It used to stress me out until I realized that it is part of my story and it is important. Making mistakes and struggling is powerful. There is power in being honest. In showing people who you are and where you come from. I’m going to help you embrace that power and lose your shame.
Because you are a work in progress, and I am here to help you love every step of the journey, starting with yourself – because, my love, you are connected to something WAY bigger and WAY more powerful than any little fear of yours could ever compete with.
It is time to take that vision board you have hanging up on your bedroom wall and bring it to life…your life. For real. It is time to get up in life’s face and tell it what you need, and more importantly, what you DESERVE.
Don’t worry, it’s all good if you aren’t sure exactly what that life looks like yet. I’m going to hold your hand while we figure it out together…